First, thank you so very much to Mythical Books for
having me, and for suggesting such an amazing topic for my guest blog post! What
is “Amor Semper Fidelis,” always faithful love, and what does it look like in a
modern romance novel, given the changing trends in the genre? This is a
question that faces me as I start any new project, and my latest book, Semper
Fitz, was no exception.
I have watched with wonder the evolution of romance
novels, from the few that I could sneakily check out at my local library where
the culmination of physical romance was a kiss (I still love you, Betty Neels!)
to being able to find mainstream erotic romance in Walmart with full-on explicit
sex scenes with back-door and barb action (Lora Leigh’s Breeds series…my
jaw actually fell open at the heat level when I opened a page one aisle over
from the toothpaste). With so many changes, I haven’t always known where to
situate my own tastes, or my writing, for that matter.
I will start by confessing that I have tried several
times to write a Hallmark romance novel and I just could. Not. Do. It.
Seriously. It just felt unnatural, like if a man is meeting a beautiful woman
with whom he feels an instant connection, there’s no way he wouldn’t have at
least one or two R-rated thoughts. If the heroine accidentally brushes the
hero’s chest, it just seems disingenuous to act like the only thrill she feels
is in her fingertips if she’s genuinely attracted to him.
Do I LOVE watching Hallmark movies, especially in the
month of December? Yes…a thousand times yes! Can I feel authentic writing a love
story with the heat-level of a Hallmark movie? Nope.
The fact (which the romance genre seems to embrace
more each year) is that the majority of modern adults who are falling in love have
sex, with a wonderful variety of preferences, predilections and kinks. Sex is
one of the most beautiful expressions of love that humans are capable of, and I
firmly believe that descriptive love-making scenes deeply enrich romance
stories. I also love a good dominant alpha male, protective and sometimes
jealous and possessive, which seems to be the guilty pleasure of a lot of
modern, younger readers (including me!)…which I recognize is in direct contrast
to the political correctness that surrounds us on a daily basis.
However, I have read some edgier contemporary romance
stories that just seem too extreme for my taste as a reader or writer.
Sometimes, the sheer number of sex scenes starts to interfere with the story
and even overshadow the romance. Equally unforgivable for me in a love story is
if I start to dislike either of the main characters because of their extreme or
non-loving behavior. To borrow a favorite phrase from one of my close friends,
I’m not here to yuck your yums…I’m only speaking for myself, and if that’s your
thing, more power to you!
When I sat down to start Semper Fitz, the
question of heat level was a challenge. I knew from the start that Fitz would
be a protective alpha male, because that simply felt natural for him. However,
with Clara being pregnant in the beginning of the story, and the mother of a
newborn later on, imagining how their physical relationship would play out
wasn’t as straightforward. I genuinely feel that I put in the love scenes that
match the story, and for Fitz and Clara, who have instant sizzling chemistry,
the action is more suggestive rather than explicit for the first half of the
book. Things really heat up after Clara recovers from the delivery of baby
Hope, though, and highly-descriptive passionate love-making ensues.
I think that this type of consideration is the crux of
“Amor Semper Fidelis” in a modern romance setting. It should be whatever feels
most authentic to the tone of a story, as well as the characters. For Fitz,
waiting until Clara is ready, then making her feel gorgeous and desirable with
some hot, passionate love-making that he dominates just feels like the way he
would express his feelings for her. For another character, and another story,
who knows? Especially for Fitz, who is a former Marine, but for any of the
other heroes in my stories as well, the idea of a love that is always faithful
is at the core of their beings, no matter how they express it.
Sounds like a book I will enjoy.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a real feel good love story, with some tears too.
ReplyDeleteI love the cover and synopsis, this is a must read for me. Thank you for sharing your guest post and book details and for offering a giveaway
ReplyDeleteThis sounds like an interesting love story and I also like the cover.
ReplyDeleteI would love to read this book!
ReplyDeleteCan the author give a hint of what is the next work in progress?
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